Keith Urban sits to Jennifer Lopez’ right on the American Idol judging panel, and he says the rumors about the international star are oh so wrong.

Despite speculation that J Lo has diva-like tendencies on the Idol set, Keith reveals in an interview with Rolling Stone Country that Jennifer is quite the opposite.

“Why can a guy protect his gift and say, ‘Well this is what I need,’ and when he does that, he’s called a very clever businessman, but a woman’s called a B-I-T-C-H or a diva. I don’t understand,” he says.

As for his relationship with Harry Connick, Jr., Keith adds the crooner has quickly become his brother from another mother – but he’s quick to shoot down rumors of a “bromance.”

The three have reunited to auditions for season 14 of the show, airing in early 2015.